Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Some people....

Or should I say some mothers. I love that I can go to this awesome website (www.cafemom.com) and talk to other moms because honestly all my friends are in different places in there lives. I have one friend whose kids are in elementry school (and their girls) and she works full time and then my other great friend doesnt even have kids so nobody knows where I am coming from in my everyday life of BOY toddlerhood.
So as much as I love me some cafemom some of the moms over there are just down right rude. I have never seen so many grown ass women think they are the BEST MOM ON EARTH. Who are they to judge other people much less of mothers? I was reading a question that somebody wrote earlier in the question thread and it was something along the lines of SHOULD TEENAGERS MARRY? That kinda upset me since I was 19 when I got married but then I was reading the replies and I just couldn't believe some of the replies saying if your that age you aren't mature enough to be married and such and it made me rather upset. Sorry but I didn't know there was a certain age that marriage was easy. What age does that come at? 25? 30? 35? No matter how old you are its hard! I think that nowadays divorce is to easy so when shit gets bumpy people go packing there bags because its not some long drawn out process anymore and its more "acceptable"
Sorry about the rant things like that just upset me!

3 comments:

TannerCustomCraft said...

i know what you mean! the first time i married i was 17, he left and treated me bad, so i divorced him, second time and last time i was 19. still with my wonderful man, but marriage is SURE NOT easy no matter now long you've been married or how old you are.

Amariah said...

I'm on Cafemom a lot as well, and I know what you mean. There is always some kind of drama. But I guess that's what you get when you mix thousands of different personalities :-) The thing I get annoyed about is that at any given time there is someone complaining about how their BF or DH treats them like S%*#. I just can't believe what some women will put up with. JMO!

gretchen w said...

I know what you mean. I got married at 20, and people were so skeptical of that even. And we were engaged for over a year too. People just have to put others down to try and feel better than someone because they don't feel secure in who they are. They will always find something. Don't let it bother you too much. Remember all the great people there are out there who care about and support you no matter what! As long as you know who you are, and are happy with your decisions, that's all that matters!

 
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